My Relationship Advice

Hi my friends!

I see y’all are really enjoying getting to know who I am personally and more about me as a person – I’m flattered! So many of y’all messaged me asking me to share what I learned from my previous relationships and why they didn’t work, etc. However, as I mentioned on Instagram I’m not comfortable sharing personal details of my past, mainly because they involve another person and I don’t want to put their life out there. I will however, share my relationship advice for y’all on a more general level. Feel free to email, DM on insta, or just comment below for personal advice though! I am always open to chatting and helping in any way I can 🙂

*for those of you who just want to shop my outfit, scroll down!*

Relationships are so special in so many ways, you connect with another individual and get to share your life with them, & sometimes it lasts and sometimes it doesn’t, and that’s okay. It’s part of the process, & whether you know it or not it’s part of your personal growth too. Eventually, you’ll find your forever. "The One" will come into your life and it’ll all make sense, I say this as I’m currently single lol, but I’ve learned that everything always falls into place. Whether that’s your love life, your work life, your education, it always always falls into place.

I’m an emotional person so I think with my heart, so that means when I get hurt it hurts straight in the heart as well. But that’s not always a bad thing, I would say never to close your heart off to love whether it’s after a toxic relationship, a mutual breakup, any circumstance really. You can only give love to someone if you love yourself first, I didn’t really know this until I became single and started reading more into self love and especially the law of attraction. I realized love only comes to you if you love yourself enough first, you don’t need someone to love you, you love yourself first and don’t depend on anyone else to love you for you, and true love will find you.

Choosing the right person is where it gets tough. Do they have all the characteristics you’re looking for? Do y’all click? Do you even know what you want in a guy/girl? My advice on this, don’t be too picky. Key word:

too.

Be picky, you deserve the best and you know what you want, but don’t be TOO picky. No one is perfect, remember that whatever you want in a person might be what the other person wants in a partner as well, what if you don’t have every single box checked off on their list? Does that mean you never will? No. Keep an open heart, you never know who you might be meant to be with, they may be a total opposite but you’ll never know if you’re closed off and extremely picky.

Never take your partner for granted. No one wants to be treated like they’re worthless, or neglected. You want to make your partner feel like it’s the first time you’ve seen them, every time. WANT your person. I know it’s super cliche, but it’s possible. My grandparents are living proof of this (mA). My grandpa never fails to express and show love to my grandma, whether that’s picking random flowers off the sidewalks to bring home to her, or just singing to her in the kitchen while she’s cooking, the little things matter the most. 45 years later, and they still prove to me that if you truly love your partner and want to see them happy, nothing can come in the way of that. Never stop showing them love, life is so so short. You never know how much time forever really is, so never take your person for granted.

Compromise is another huge part of life and love. If you can’t meet in the middle, then there’s no point of meeting at all. You’re 2 different people with 2 different lives. Coming together as 1 isn’t easy, but with compromise it’s possible. Just meet them halfway, it cant be that hard if you love the person right?

The last thing I want to say is that if you want something, you have to work to make it happen. Of course if it’s meant to be it’ll work out, but you have to put in the work. Don’t think that because the person is in your life they’ll end up with you forever. Actions speak so much louder than words and unless you show you want something, you’ll never get it. So express your love, the most successful relationships I’ve seen in my life thrive on actions instead of words, so I know it’ll work if you just try. Whatever you do, do it with love and it’ll always end well. 🙂

By no means am I a relationship expert, & you don’t have to even take what I say seriously if you don’t want to, these are just my thoughts and what I believe a relationship needs to be successful through the course of time, but of course to each their own. Again, my communication channels are open 🙂 don’t hesitate to send me a msg at anytime!

For those of you who are here to shop my outfit, you can check down below! I’ve linked a blazer that’s under $40 and exactly like the one I’m wearing here! Shop the whole outfit & more on my LiketoKnowit profile.

p.s. not my car – I just used it to help my outfit pop LOL!

email: fatima@fatimaaqil.com

-F.

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